Choosing a surname
- 06 December 2016
- 06 December 2016
Parents can decide whether to give their first-born child the mother’s surname or the father’s surname. You can register your choice at the Municipality of The Hague in a declaration of surname choice. The ‘uniformity in name within the family’ rule applies then to any children who come later. This means that they must take the same surname if they are born into the same relationship with the same partners.
- Both parents must make a joint application for surname choice in person at a counter of the Department of Public Service at one of The Hague’s district offices. Both parents should take a valid form of identification.
- Make an appointment to do this.
Does the child have the nationality of another country? The municipality will examine what the law of that country determines on the possibility of choosing names.
If you are an unmarried mother and the father does not acknowledge your child, then the child will take your surname.
Parent with a same-sex partner
If a child is born to a woman with a partner of the same sex, then the child will take the name of the biological mother in principle. Do you have a different preference? Consult the website Government.nl.
If parents are not married, the child will automatically take the mother’s surname. If you want the child to take the father’s surname, the father has to formally acknowledge the child before the birth (erkenning voor de geboorte) and the parents must both make a joint application regarding the child’s name. This surname choice can be altered if the parents later marry or enter into an unmarried partnership.
You can have a declaration of surname choice (akte van naamskeuze) drawn up before you register the birth.
What happens if you do not make a choice?
It is not compulsory to have a certificate of surname choice drawn up. If you do not do this, the following rules apply:
- Are the parents married? Then the child automatically takes the father’s surname.
- Are the parents unmarried? Then the child takes the mother’s surname.
These rules are only valid under Dutch naming law.
Fee to choose a surname
How long does it take?
The choice of surname will be registered immediately.